By now, the pink ribbon and breast cancer awareness are almost as synonymous with October as pumpkins. And for Missie Bender, owner of one Vignette Home, breast cancer awareness is a cause close to her heart: Her closest girlfriend is a breast cancer survivor.  This month at her store, she is featuring a selection of pink home décor items and accessories, and a portion of the proceeds will be donated to Susan G. Komen for the Cure. There are vases, artwork, candles, and fun accents, including these lovely pink lady lamps ($525 for the pair). Vignette Home is at 346 Park Avenue in Glencoe.