Collision Course

In 2005, a young woman bent on self-destruction intentionally drove her car into the back of another. She lived. Three musicians on their lunch break died. This year, as her prison sentence comes to its end, the case remains a tragedy without closure or explanation.

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In happier times: (far left and above) John Glick and his wife, Rebecca Crawford; (top) Glick; (right) Glick and Michael Dahlquist at work at Shure

 

Michael Dahlquist hadn't been playing drums very long when he walked into a Seattle practice space in 1990 and auditioned for the founding members of Silkworm, who, up to that point, had been relying upon a drum machine nicknamed Lurch. Dahlquist had been driving a cab to make a living and, by his own admission, wasn't a very good drummer. But, over time, the vicious way he hit the drums (often wearing nothing but boxer shorts and gardening gloves) evolved into a concise, if aggressive, technique. "Eventually, his drumming style was described as workmanlike; blue collar, lunchpail, hardhat drumming," says Steve Albini, the renowned producer who recorded eight of Silkworm's albums. "But I think that undersells his genius a little bit." Five years after Dahlquist joined the band, Silkworm signed with Matador and then Touch and Go—two of the independent music scene's most respected labels—and toured the world. 

Dahlquist's friends describe a similar, far sweeter energy when he was away from the drums. "He could make waiting in line at the post office fun," says a friend, Rene Usdrowski. Over the years, Dahlquist's family and friends grew accustomed to his energetic phone calls, which came whenever he saw something unusual—a sunset, a constellation, fireworks. He didn't meet people so much as he became instant friends with them. "After he died," Midgett says, "I got dozens of emails from people all over the country who said Michael was their best friend."

Doug Meis was also a drummer. As a kid growing up in Oak Harbor, Washington, Meis would practice beating his hands against his skinny chest even as he lay in bed. On weekends, he would don a pair of soundproof headphones, tune a radio to the local alternative rock station 107.7 FM, and from noon to 7 p.m. drum to whatever music he heard on the radio. (Those hours were scheduled out of respect for the neighbors.) As a music business major at Illinois Wesleyan University, he spent his Friday and Saturday nights in the school's practice rooms, not because he was antisocial, but because he knew he'd have the rooms for as long as he wanted. "It didn't matter what he was doing," his brother, Scott, says. "Just as long as he had time to play the drums."

Not long after college, Meis loaded up his car and headed to Chicago on a whim. "Nothing made Doug anxious or worried or depressed," says his girlfriend, Jennifer Philbrook. "If he did get down, he'd say, 'I'm kind of sad'—then, a little while later, it would pass."

John Glick was a guitarist and, most recently, frontman of The Returnables. On stage, he moved with a confidence and exuberance that suggested rock star. Offstage, Glick himself wasn't showy. He once told his bandmates that he'd much rather be known as a "cult star" and would feel validated by a review in the Trouser Press, an off-the-radar New York rock publication. His wish was granted after the 1999 release of the EP So When Can I See You Again? "It was music performed for the love of music and the camaraderie," says a friend, Rhett Miller, lead singer for the band Old 97's. "It was never driven by ambition or need for adulation." 

Glick, who was born and raised in Malden, Massachusetts, started reading when he was three and, by five, was writing poems and songs. (His sister, Emily Alston-Follansbee, recalls one called "John Glick's Rock 'n Roll Song.") From the time he was a student at the University of Wisconsin in Madison, Glick formed bands with his friends, even rigging an audition so that one of his best friends, Jonathan Ben-Isvy, might make the group. Ben-Isvy didn't know how to play guitar well, so Glick spent weeks secretly teaching him five Returnables songs. Later, as The Returnables set about making the liner notes for their first album, Glick insisted that all four members take credit. "He wrote the majority of the tunes," recalls Ben-Isvy, who, as one might expect, passed the audition. "But he didn't care." Bandmates weren't the only ones to know this side of Glick. If he had a great sandwich, he had to make you one. If he heard a great record, you had to listen.

"He just wanted to share things with people," says his widow, Rebecca Crawford, "and the same could be said about Doug and Michael, too. They lived every day like that."

Photography: (Dahlquist portrait and silkworm flier) Courtesy of the Dahlquist family, (Dahlquist and Meis) Courtesy of dougjohnmichael.com, (Meis, top right and middle right) Courtesy of Scott Meis, (Meis, bottom right) Todd Wilson

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Aug 1, 2008 03:28 pm
 Posted by  anon82

Thank you for this piece. People should never forget the amazing souls that were Doug, John, and Mike. I'm glad you were able to capture a piece of how much they meant to us all.

Aug 3, 2008 02:34 pm
 Posted by  Anonymous

Why does your fragile mental state entitle you to another chance to do this again? Clearly, if she just wasn't in control of herself due to psychiatric problems and prescription drugs, then there is no reason why she wouldn't just hop in another car and kill more people in the future. Either she can control herself or she can't.

I knew John in high school. Everything written here about his character is true - he was always laughing, always making other people laugh, creative, talented, vibrant, magnetic, dynamic, in love, absolutely head over heels in love with music...

But some judge bent over backwards to make excuses for her. He should remember that when she gets her license back, it could be his family sitting there at the red light.

Aug 11, 2008 06:39 am
 Posted by  Anonymous

I saw this on "Snapped" last night (not so pretty without the hair dye and all that make-up, is she? Empty eyes, no soul behind them whatsover.)

Why was she allowed to get away with three murders?

Why were those three men's lives held so cheaply?

And she's going to be allowed to drive again? That's outrageous.

That judge should be removed from the bench immediately.


Terry Callen
Gloucester City, NJ

Aug 11, 2008 04:38 pm
 Posted by  Anonymous

I cannot believe this woman is being set free. They say she is mentally ill, so she apparently needs mental help. She is sick, and the thought of death didn't stop her from this crime, so why should jail? I say revoke her license and get her the help she needs.

Aug 13, 2008 01:33 pm
 Posted by  Anonymous

What is wrong with the justice system in this country????? Very very sad. My prayers are with the families of the victims.

Aug 13, 2008 02:53 pm
 Posted by  Anonymous

A sad event yes, but all too often we say 'justice was not served' and blame the system when we confuse justice with vengeance. What would Rebecca call adequate closure in this situation? Who would decide weather that punishment was just?

Aug 14, 2008 11:37 am
 Posted by  chongo shaun

There are only a couple of methods of justice I can think of in this case. Life imprisonment (which I would gladly put my tax money into) or banishment. I do not always believe in eye for an eye so I can't wish her death, but this is a travesty of justice.

Aug 14, 2008 10:42 pm
 Posted by  Anonymous

I went to school with Jeanette for 15 years, she is a great person who has gone through a lot the last few years. Everyone in our towns feel for the 3 guys that were killed, but we also feel for Jeanette who is seriously ill and needs help. She wanted to kill herself, not someone else. Its just sad that it all happened differently. Whats done is done. Everyone should pray for her return to health, and for the health of the victims families.

Aug 17, 2008 12:21 pm
 Posted by  bodeie

I live in Columbus, Ohio where just a few days ago a guy was sentenced to 34 years in prison for killing three asian students in a 'similar fashion'. His SUV hit another car and went airborne causing a 9 car accident. His excuse was he got mad at a driver on a cell phone and the fast food restaurant didn't prepare his sandwiches right. Difference here is he killed 2 people in another accident that he got jail time for (believe 10 years) www.wbns10tv.com (for the story). Jason Skaggs was his name. I remember a woman on trial for killing a mother and her 2 (maybe 3) daughter's. Was aired on CourtTV (live) a few years back. Alcohol 'involved'. She got 60 years. Was her 4th OMVI and not sure if other accidents involved deaths. This doesn't surprise me at all. Electing a new president won't change anything. We need a 'clean sweep' of our people in D.C. People killed by drunk drivers is nothing more than an accepted form of 'population control' or our laws would be more severe. Every night people drink in millions of bars in this country and drive home. You never read about the guy who was killed by the driver smoking pot. Forgive me for bringing this up but the penalties are harsher for marijuanna related offenses. Speaking from experience you can only get so 'high' yet we can drink until we blackout and not remember anything the next day (speaking from experience there too). Rapists get more jail time than murderers. How does that make sense. Andrew Luster got more than 100 years and he didn't kill anybody. Why should murderers get less time and often if they are young enough (like Sliwinski) still have a lot of their life ahead of them. The people running our government is is the problem otherwise we would be finding alternative fuels but then the oil companies would lose money and the government doesn't want that. Think about the guy paying .63 cents a gallon in Utah for propane in his Honda GX.

Aug 17, 2008 12:23 pm
 Posted by  bodeie

Left one thing out. The woman who got 60 years dog was in her car at the time of the accident and her first concer (she asked the officer at the scene) how her dog was instead of inquiring into the 'carnage' she was responsible for.

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